A
rollercoaster. That is the one word that describes my experience as a 2e
parent. My “ride” started 12 years ago when I noticed my 15 month old starting
to speak in whole sentence instead of just baby talk phrases. I was amazed at
his capabilities at that age, as I am today.
Being
a parent of a gifted child, you embrace the highs of their achievements and
endure the lows, which can be dramatic. One of the most important pieces of
advice I received was from a retired special ed professional was to “find your
people”. When my son started Kindergarten and I realized the uphill journey he
was to endure, that is exactly what I did!
I
went to any meeting that involved gifted and accommodating learning
disabilities. I attended seminars and workshops, created a parent support group
with another parent called SOS for 2e (Supports, Options and Solutions) and
finally landed at the door steps of the Chicago Gifted Community Center.
I
have the honor of being elected President of CGCC this coming year. I am proud
of this organization and our mission to help all gifted families and students
create a community, so no one is without support. To me, the most important
part of the rollercoaster is to have “your people” who you can talk to when
things are going great and a shoulder to cry on and figure out solutions when
it seems the world is crashing down on you.
Since
COVID-19, the world is a much different place and never has there been a time
that a community for supports was needed more than right now. As I start with
my new responsibilities, I want to thank Newenka DuMont, the past president,
still active Board Member and a founder of CGCC, for her past contributions
which are numerous. Lastly, I want to honor the mothers for the strength and
determination that you display day in and day out. You are an extraordinary
group of moms determined to make a difference. Enjoy your special day and below
is a quote:
“Be bold enough to use your voice, brave enough to listen to your
heart and strong enough to live the life you’ve always imagined.” – Happy
Mother’s Day!